We were supposed to go to a festival in Virginia today but then I overslept and woke up around 1 and Mom was mad at me because she was ready to go all day but we ended up staying home instead and it’s all weekend long so we can still go tomorrow but today would have worked out a lot better and I fucked it, I fucked it so bad and it’s all my fucking fault

courteousmingler:

universalmage:

bibyediscourse:

aphobes are literally calling a real life wlw abusive to her gf cause she’s asexual and her gf isnt. like. jesus christ.

So this is what they did to me which made me constantly throw myself at my gf and into sexual situations with other people until she finally had to tell me to stop because it was obliviously traumatizing me 

for those who weren’t yet convinced that aphobes are a movement that thrives on sexual entitlement and aims to paint asexuals refusing sex as an abusive act. 

reminder that aphobes aim to shame and guilt aces into “consenting” to sex and sex acts using this propaganda about denying consent being capable of being abusive. 

reminder that using lies, shame, and guilt to convince someone to have sex with you is an act of rape.

reminder that aphobes are, as OP describes, pushing rhetoric to make guilting asexuals into sex (as they’re abusive if they don’t consent) more socially acceptable.

yeah.