“If you don’t like raw aggression you shouldn’t be working at build a bear.” Might be one of the most chaotic things I’ve ever had the misfortune of reading
aphobes are literally calling a real life wlw abusive to her gf cause she’s asexual and her gf isnt. like. jesus christ.
So this is what they did to me which made me constantly throw myself at my gf and into sexual situations with other people until she finally had to tell me to stop because it was obliviously traumatizing me
for those who weren’t yet convinced that aphobes are a movement that thrives on sexual entitlement and aims to paint asexuals refusing sex as an abusive act.
reminder that aphobes aim to shame and guilt aces into “consenting” to sex and sex acts using this propaganda about denying consent being capable of being abusive.
reminder that using lies, shame, and guilt to convince someone to have sex with you is an act of rape.
reminder that aphobes are, as OP describes, pushing rhetoric to make guilting asexuals into sex (as they’re abusive if they don’t consent) more socially acceptable.
I had muted her last year-ish because I got a notification from Facebook to join a TERF group she was in and I didn’t wanna see any more things like that but then today I unmuted her out of curiosity as to how far gone she actually was and one of the first posts I saw (Not another person’s post that she shared, but an actual post she wrote and thought was socially acceptable) was a mini-mope about how “only men could be so selfish and grabby to oppress women for centuries and then turn around and wear dresses and claim they were more oppressed”, like it was CARTOONISHLY terfy and I was a little amazed that an actual human being could say it in complete seriousness
So yeah there’s a limit to how far my passive aggressive mutefollowing can go lol
Amazon is still bad. Jeff Bezos is still bad. Bezos and other oligarchs being able to own whole media empires are still bad.
Reminds me of when Trump sarcastically implied we should remove Founding Father statues in response to Confederate monuments being removed (since both sets of people were slave-owner oligarchs). Democrats laughed that off as a ridiculous conclusion to jump to. Those of us on the left were fully on board with the conclusion, even if Trump’s broader point was dead wrong.
When I say ‘dykes’, I mean ‘dykes’. As in: people who identify as dykes.
In the post you’re refering to I made it quite clear that I was writing about dykes I know and when I speak of these dykes I won’t erase or sanitize their identities by using a mainstream, tame, deradicalized word that denies the words they specifically chose for themselves to emphasize their identities and their struggles as queer marganilized working class proudly-perverted revolutionary DYKES.
Keep your fucking respectability politics to yourself.
Hmmm. Interesting post!
Anyway, I’ve seen some of my followers reblog from this freak, and I think it’s worth stating that you should probably unfollow me if you agree with them.
did he really just say “proudly-perverted”
Yeah, that makes no sense at all.
(to any people unfollowing me: please block me at the same time so I never have to deal with you again. bye and good riddance)
When did @comcastkills decide to become hot garbage to THIS degree like, damn.
I forget the age range on this site runs only a little past the teens most of the time because nothing said here is in any way outside of LGBTQ history.
But, you know, thats reactionary bullshit for you. Are discoursers all younger than 21 or something? Would that explain this nonsense?
The first person who welcomes me into the community as a sort of mentor proudly ID’d as a Dyke would insist that be used over lesbian or homosexual.
Comcastkills showing the same regard for people as the average school bully, I see.
It’s wild and depressing and wildly depressing for me to see this kind of stuff, because when I was a kid, any of us babygays would have literally killed to have an older queer mentor of any kind. Shockingly, there were few around, because, you know, AIDS. But now, the next generation, finally having what we lost, an older generation to teach them about their cultural history n shit… Just. Actively hates and in some cases even tries to kill them (I’ve seen kids on this hellsite try to cost grown-ass adults, sometimes parents, their jobs, kids, and lives).
Like, I feel so old to be like “back in my day” or “when I was your age” but seriously. I always thought the younger generations would be better off for having what we lost. Instead: this.
And we gotta call it by its name:
It’s not a generation gap. It’s not just ignorance (though that plays a part). It’s not just TERF manipulation against the word queer (though that plays a part).
We’re seeing a young generation of LGBT conservatism: kids who want their civil rights but who don’t want all the mess and scandalousness of actual liberation. Kids who want to hold on to what has been won for white middle class binary identified LG kids and don’t want to thing about what’s happening on the margins on the LGBT movement. Kids who want glamorous LGBT celebrities on tv, not homeless LGBT youth in their spaces. We have kids into gay nationalism. We have lesbians longing for the time when we didn’t include bisexuals and trans women in our communities. We have LGBT youth voting for Tories.
These kids aren’t shitting on their queer elders out of just ignorance, they actively reject our struggle against all oppression.
one of the ways i know this culture has a massive issue with consent
is the sheer amount of people I’ve known that just lie & tell people they’re deathly allergic to foods they dislike
because otherwise people will hound them, mock them, coax them, harass them, try to force them to eat it, or even trick them into eating it, and they will never hear the end of it
your coworkers will bake it into a fucking pie, call it something else, and wait til your birthday, gather everyone and their first cousins to sit around in a circle waiting for you to put a forkful into your mouth and then point rhythmically at you in a chanting, glaring, sweating, unholy circle like SWISS CHARD SWISS CHARD YOU JUST ATE SWISS CHARD HA HA HA SWISS CHARD NOW YOU LIKE SWISS CHARD
Because forcing someone into a situation where they don’t feel safe declining putting something into their body they’d rather not be there is totes 100% wholesome American fun
And this is something so known that it’s infinitely easier to just lie and tell people that you’ll die if you eat that food…which actually doesn’t always stop it from happening
Pride, Prejudice and Mail Order 